So many times I have asked both sexes "How many partners are TOO many partners?" Other than the initial response of ONE....people usually say they dont know... So I would just like to know the answer with a well thought out response. I know in high school I would always think that males shouldnt go over 50 and females shouldnt go over 5. I have no idea what kind of ratio I was working with but that was my thought pattern.
As I started growing up I realized that my female number was not realistic by far. Females have gone above and beyond 5 and lots dont even know an actual number, rather a range. They find the idea of keep tracking "childish" and "novice". WHAT?!?! Where have the standards gone???
Males pride themselves in multiple partners and think it's cute not to have an actual number. (SMH)
My personal opinion of a female number that is too large would definitely have to be anything more than 2 boys per year. For example if a girl has been active for 3 years, she should not have had sex with over 6 dudes...Is that too many? Please somebody let me know!
Thursday, February 12, 2009
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I think everyone has suffered from this dilemma honey. Now, I'm going to be honest...by your standards, I'd be a ho! LMBO! But we all know that I'm not. I guess what I'm trying to say is is that the reality is, "shit happens." Things don't always go as planned. Hell I was saving myself for marraige & got all the way to the 1st semester of my senior year, but like I said, "shit happens." The realy question to this is how far do you go?
I dont believe in all that double standards shit bc at the end of the day we're having sex with each other so the same standards should apply to both sexes..I believe for both sexes, it should be bout 4 per year since theyve been active...I say this because I think the average relationship from high school to now lasts bout 3 months...
but most dudes numbers surpass this...like my number is less than half most of my friend...but thats because i take more pride in who i fux than how many unlike most dudes...lol..but yea...
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